I sometimes reflect upon my marriage, and I think about marriage in general. With marriage comes a lot of responsibility. It is an undertaking that requires give and take; respecting each other; putting God in the mix; working at the ins and outs of living together; trying to make decisions amicably; not expecting ones spouse to be perfect or look perfect; and not being spoiled or selfish. These are just some of the things that go into making a marriage work, but at the top of my list is putting God in the mix, beginning with God as the foundation: we need to ask Him for guidance, help, and to try to live love. We all can have a better marriage when we call upon God and bond with Him and trust in Him.