I have a good husband, which is evident by a number of things he has done and that he does. I trust him more than I have ever trusted another man, but I have to always have a corner of my mind and heart reserved for the ‘what ifs.’ What do I mean by that? What if my husband fell out of love with me one day? What if he were to fall in love with another woman? Because of those possibilities or other possibilities, I should be prepared or in a position to take care of myself if I ever had to without him. No one’s love is guaranteed. I was once told about a man who was crazy about a woman, and he constantly ran after her until he finally got her, but guess what? He left her sooner than later. He told someone he had no more use for her after he saw her on the toilet. Just think about that. I mean really think about that. So, never, ever count on another to love you always unless it’s the Lord. Tuck away some funds and get an education and/or skills and always pray for God to bless your marriage and may both of you do your part as loving spouses. Just my two cents.