Do you know that GOd hates certain things? The Scriptures teach us that ther are seven things God hates. Let me review these things in my words, but I challenge you to find the Scripture and the exact wording: God hates a proud look (an arrogant type of person; he hates a heart that devises wicked things; he hates feet that runs swiftly to do evil/deceitful things; he hates Those who shed innocent blood; a lying tongue; a false witness; and one who stirs up discord and dissension among brothers and sisters.
We need to be mindful of these things. Many times people stir discord by going from person to person, eager to tell one or the other what someone said about him or her that was negative or unflattering, knowing that such would not be welcomed by the person. That is spreading discord and is not Christian behavior; and do you stop speaking to someone because someone told you something negative about the person or you found out something negative about the person? If you have, you have ‘judged’ the person, which is against God’s commandment. How can you know the truth? How can you set yourself in a position of authority to judge. As a Christian, do not stoop to the level of a non-Christian for you will be judged by God and miss out on some of the blessings you would or might have received had you not judged someone, especially if the person (you judged) pleases the Lord.